I'm not saying there aren't things I wouldn't change, but the end result of being where I am and who I am now is well worth the wrinkles, stretch marks and the bumpy ride. When the victim returned home he was questioned by officers about the nature of his relationship with Wolf, but refused to comment. I look at younger women and not for a moment do I wish I could turn back. A college professor of mine had a very beautiful, sexy wife I only realize now who was probably no older than 35 but, to my college-aged self, she was ancient. I was already in the elevator when the doors opened and about 10 young men -- all in their twenties and not exactly what you'd call sober -- got on. So, no matter how much Botox you inject or how many Pilates classes you attend, you're still the age you are and everyone else can see that. They're my three sons and I'm their Mom, Momma and Ma respectively. How did it feel that his friend had not counted me as a viable, desirable woman? Lastly, there are young men whose opinion of me I do value. Lobsters galore as Royal Ascot goers put on poshest picnics known to man At conviction, the court heard how Wolf, who was 26 at the time of the offences, groomed the year-old victim between September 13 and September 24, In the same situation, I hope they'd conduct themselves -- not like the loudmouth guy -- but rather like his friend, who showed surprising sensitivity to an old lay-dee like me. But the nudging persisted until I turned to the tall, handsome young man standing next to me. In other words, how did it make me feel that his friend was asking where the ladies were while I, obviously a female, stood among them? PA The friend told officers he saw the two having sex in a park. In fact, craps-table aside, I'm willing to bet my old, sorry butt on it.